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Review: For Men Only by Shaunti & Jeff Feldhahn

[ 3 ] January 21, 2012
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Reviewed by Poppy Johnson

For Men Only is a handy pocket guide into the minds of women. It follows the logic of how women think or behave at various times in their lives. The book shows men how to listen to women, instructs them on what not to say and gives tips on getting along with women in romantic relationships. The book also includes responses from female respondents who explain how they would feel in regard to various relationship issues.

For Men Only is grey-tabbed on the edges of the pages and separated into sections on sex, beauty, listening skills, security, emotion and reassurance. Each chapter has bullet points, examples, call-out quotes, truths about women, exceptions to the rules, quizzes for the reader, definitions and solutions to typical problems presented in relationships. It tells men what not to say in many emotional situations, and explains to men when they are missing the point with the women in their lives.

One section that I thought was incredibly sensitive and handled well was the one relating to the desire levels of men and women. Men’s level of desire is usually higher than women’s but interestingly, the authors point out that men use sex as a relief from the daily grind while women have to pull themselves out of the daily grind (taking care of the family, work obligations), in order to feel ready for being sexually assertive. Because women are typically caretakers in the family, they do have more distractions.

The authors of For Men Only truly see the women’s position in male and female relationships. I’d recommend this book to anyone over 21 years old who wants to know more about relationships in general.

Rating: ★★★★★ 

After a decade of working in several NYC law departments and teaching, Poppy decided she enjoyed writing full-time. She currently works as a freelance writing consultant, and lives with her husband and sons on the East Coast.

Review copy was provided free of any obligation by Multnomah Books. No monetary or any other form of compensation was received.

Blog Tour: Journeys on the Edge by Walt Hampton

[ 2 ] December 21, 2011
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Please welcome Walt Hampton, author of Journeys On The Edge: Living A Life That Matters, who is touring the blogosphere with Media Guests!

Reviewed by Alysia George

Everyone could use a little inspiration once in awhile; some wise words to help with motivation and the realization of goals. Journeys On The Edge: Living A Life That Matters by Walt Hampton is just that: inspirational and motivational.

Journeys On The Edge is basically a simple guide to help the reader figure out how to successfully live in a way that is personally fulfilling. In each section of his book, Hampton uses stories of his real life adventures to illustrate his point. He also quotes from others quite extensively for the same reason.

The sections of the book include: remembering/realizing exactly what your dreams are, the importance of taking the first step and moving forward from there, balancing our dreams with our very real responsibilities, focusing on that which is truly important while being sure to give ourselves the quiet and space we need to focus on realizing our dreams, and committing to make our dreams a reality.

Journeys On The Edge is an easy, yet thought-provoking read. A few chapters in, I realized that there were several points I’d want to re-visit later. At that point I found a highlighter marker and started over. The book is a great reference for times when a little inspiration and motivation could come in handy.

Rating: ★★★★★ 

Alysia lives in Metro Detroit with her husband and four children. She writes about family life, parenting issues, and other things of interest to her on her blog, Michigal.

Review copy was provided free of any obligation by Media Guests. No monetary or any other form of compensation was received.

Review: Stories Behind the Greatest Hits of Christmas by Ace Collins

[ 2 ] December 20, 2011
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Reviewed by Alyssa Katanic

I am a huge fan of Ace Collins books! He has quite a few focusing on Christmas, and specifically the stories behind some of our favorite aspects of this wonderful Holiday season. His most recent book, Stories Behind the Greatest Hits of Christmas, lists off America’s favorite Christmas songs (think Casey Kasem’s countdown, for those of us who are old enough to remember, focusing on Christmas music), the story behind what made that song a “hit,” as well as the story behind how the song was originally created.

Stories Behind the Greatest Hits of Christmas is similar to Ace Collins’ Stories Behind the Best-Loved Songs of Christmas (which I gave as a Christmas gift to a music loving friend a few years ago), however, it gives a bit more focus to how those songs came to weave themselves into the fabric of Americans’ Christmas celebrations.

We all know these songs! And have probably been hearing them in the stores and on the radio since sometime in October. Here is your chance to read why songs like White Christmas, Jingle Bell Rock, and Silent Night continue to see daily play on the radio during December, and to fall all the more in love with them for knowing that much more about their background.

For fans, there is also the Stories Behind Christmas Boxed Set, including: Stories Behind the Greatest Hits of Christmas, Stories Behind the Best-Loved Songs of Christmas, and Stories Behind the Great Traditions of Christmas (another one that I’ve read with my family often during this season).

Rating: ★★★★☆ 

Alyssa is a wife and stay at home, homeschooling mother of five, with two boxers, two cats, a soft shelled turtle named after Bob the Builder, and 7 frogs (admittedly a homeschooling project gone froggy). In all her spare time, she loves to read and believes that there is no such thing as having too many books!

Review copies were provided free of any obligation by Zondervan. No monetary or any other form of compensation was received.

Review: Grumble Hallelujah by Caryn Dahlstrand Rivadeneira

[ 2 ] December 3, 2011
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Reviewed by Poppy Johnson

In life, everyone experiences some type of regret. Some people are better than others at getting over disappointments and moving on to enjoy a fulfilled life. Grumble Hallelujah, by Caryn Dahlstrand Rivadeneira, offers a new way to find peace when your life doesn’t pan out quite as expected.

The source of fulfillment can come in many forms: an acceptance of one’s destiny, a commitment to living a spirit-filled and spirit-led life, a realization that there is always room for hope that the future will be brighter and the realization that when bad events happen in life, they are an opportunity to come closer to God. It is in fact possible to find joy when life takes drastic twists and turns.

Grumble Hallelujah offers the advice to “live dead” because only then will it be possible to see what life blessings are on tap for you. This is reminiscent of the philosophers who say that we should “love the questions” as we find real answers to life. And it does follow that if we accept what is happening in our lives rather than fight our destined path. If we find our paths, we will live the peaceful lives that we are meant to live.

Most believers have had moments when the stars were out of alignment and their lives did not go as planned. At these times, we have less physical control and feel the most vulnerable. People want to have a positive outlook and this book shows how to continue to share that enthusiasm even when the sky is the darkest.

By reading Grumble Hallelujah, I gained the motivation to live a mightier life by trusting in my destiny, whatever it may be. Fear can be useful in our lives as a motivator or as an obstacle remover, but it should never be used as a negative force to stand in the way of potential success. Knowing that you are not alone in your life’s journey makes it easier to weather the tough times. The book offered guidance, advice and scripture for many of these life moments.

Rivadeneira shows that when people learn to stand on the promise of God, it means that it is possible to keep standing on faith until the promise for our lives is fulfilled. Grumble Hallelujah is for anyone ready to change their attitude and lead a more positive life.

Rating: 5/5

After a decade of working in several NYC law departments and teaching, Poppy decided she enjoyed writing full-time. She currently works as a freelance writing consultant, and lives with her husband and sons on the East Coast.

Review copy was provided free of any obligation by Tyndale. No monetary or any other form of compensation was received.

Review: Work, Love, Pray by Diane Paddison

[ 2 ] November 29, 2011
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Reviewed by Poppy Johnson

In Work, Love, Pray, Diane Paddison shares advice to help women balance – as the title indicates – their jobs, families and faith.

Diane started out her own career as a commercial real estate broker and after twenty-two years, she found herself in the position of a chief operating officer. She was not required to sacrifice time with her family because the company she worked for shared her values. When Diane left the company for another position, her new employer initially understood Diane’s need to spend time with her family. However, the declining housing market of 2008 struck and for the first time in her life, Diane was asked to put her career before her family.

Work, Love, Pray is a guide for women who are placed in the same situation and offers information through narrative chapters, reflection and discussion questions. The questions at the end of each chapter allow the reader to focus on brainstorming problem solving solutions to the career and life problems mentioned within the chapter.

The book goes over every conceivable issue and obstacle that could stand in the way of a woman achieving balance in her career. These barriers include: family planning, keeping fit and making time for regular exercise, making time for each season in life, understanding the value of networking with other professional women, handling money matters and making a conscious effort to grow your faith.

Diane also takes the time to discuss the current inequalities in the workplace and how they affect women in general in the workforce. The appendix includes a resource of professional organizations for women with websites and summaries of each company. Work, Love, Pray is a great resource for working women and can be used for beginning a career or re-starting one after raising a family.

Rating: 5/5

After a decade of working in several NYC law departments and teaching, Poppy decided she enjoyed writing full-time. She currently works as a freelance writing consultant, and lives with her husband and sons on the East Coast.

Review copy was provided free of any obligation by Zondervan. No monetary or any other form of compensation was received.

Review: A Cluttered Life by Pesi Dinnerstein

[ 5 ] November 3, 2011
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Reviewed by Poppy Johnson

A Cluttered Life is about finding oneself among chaos. The author, Pesi Dinnerstein, is a 50-year-old woman that finally realizes that she is disorganized and out of touch with herself. She decides, with the help of her friends (the Holy Sisters), that she needs a major life change to become more efficient, happy and balanced. She believes that she can get her life back on track by eliminating the clutter in her home and car. Dinnerstein finds a new relationship with God in the mix; her real life exploits on the way to overcoming the clutter make for an interesting story.

Our state of mind is either cluttered or not, and so is our spiritual being. Dinnerstein goes on a spiritual quest and struggles with staying present and truly enjoying her life. She learns as we all do that trying to live is actually living itself. And we can take away from the book that “finding yourself” is never easy but always satisfying – especially when we know that there are no wrong answers.

A Cluttered Life was interesting because I could relate to Dinnerstein’s sincere attempts to find a better balance. What I liked about her personality was that she did not give the impression that what she was doing had to be perfect or that there was only one way of being. Her journey seemed authentic and you saw her personality shining through each epiphany that she had regarding where her life should go (in relation to where it was).

Rating: 5/5

After a decade of working in several NYC law departments and teaching, Poppy decided she enjoyed writing full-time. She currently works as a freelance writing consultant, and lives with her husband and sons on the East Coast.

Review copy was provided free of any obligation by Seal Press. No monetary or any other form of compensation was received.

Review: A Thousand Lives by Julia Scheeres

[ 8 ] October 26, 2011
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Reviewed by Vera Pereskokova (Luxury Reading)

I was born in 1983 and therefore, did not know much about the Jonestown massacre of November 18, 1977 prior to reading A Thousand Lives by Julia Scheeres. Drawn in by my preference for true accounts, I was at once fascinated by the history of the Peoples’ Temple and horrified at the inevitable disaster; I could not stay away from this book.

Jim Jones was attracted to organized religion from a young age and found acceptance there that he lacked elsewhere in his life. He began preaching early on – on street corners to whomever would listen – and eventually opened his own church in Indiana. People flocked to Jones’ charisma, perceived healing powers and message of equility that rang true with many African Americans in the 1960′s.

Jones’ popularity grew as did church attendance, and he later moved most of his congregation to Redwood, California and then San Francisco. Jones’ still preached equality and acceptance, interweaving his own socialistic ideals. However, his charisma was increasingly buyoed by his drug use, making him more and more paranoid and critical of his followers perceived faults.

While in San Francisco, Jones began encouraging communal living and shared resources; many of his followers were required to sell of their belongings and surrender their earnings. Concocting conspiracy theories – and maybe believing them himself – Jones rented land in the South American country of Guyana and began the process of moving his congregation to the middle of the jungle. Some went willingly, others were not given a choice; Jones separated families, violated custody agreements and brought many children to the newly named Jonestown under the guise of taking them on short trips – few ever came back.

As more members of the Peoples’ Temple arrived in Jonestown, the conditions continued to worsen. There was never enough food, every moment was tracked by Jones or his cronies, and people were subjected to long days of hard labor as well as cruel punishments for any small slights. While some still believed in their leader, others simply stayed quiet; some tried – many unsuccessfully – to escape. Jones, always under the influence of one drug or another, ruled with terror, fabricating stories of American conspiracies against Jonestown.

While some members still dreamed of better days at Jonestown, Jones had only one goal in mind: to go down in history as a revolutionary who died along with thousands of his followers. On November 18, 1997, he carried his dream to fruition when Jonestown became the site of the murder-suicide of 909 people. Surrounded by armed guards, people drank Kool-Aid mixed with deadly cianide; some were forcibly injected. A third of those who died that day were children, many under the age of 10.

Julia Scheeres’ account of the Jonestown massacre is based on a mixture of tapes retrieved from Jonestown, members’ diaries, articles, etc. And yet, A Thousand Lives reads as one fluid piece and as well written fiction that is sadly the grimm reality of recent past. Prior to reading the book, I could not imagine how anyone could force nearly a 1000 people to commit suicide, unless they were willing participants. After learning about the individual members of the Peoples’ Temple and the control Jones exuded over his followers, I can understand how most of them so no other option.

Rating: 5/5

Review copy was provided free of any obligation by Free Press. No monetary or any other form of compensation was received.

Review: Fathermothergod by Lucia Greenhouse

[ 3 ] October 14, 2011
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Reviewed by Alyssa Katanic

Fathermothergod by Lucia Greehouse is a memoir of a woman raised by converts to Christian Science and the effect that their conversion had upon their family.

The sub title of the book is: My Journey Out of Christian Science. However, the author states that she has never personally believed in Christian Science herself, and the book does not feel like an inside view of the religion as a whole. Greenhouse tends to focus on the aspect of Christian Science that affected her most dramatically, that of the conviction against seeking medical attention.

That said, healthcare is a major aspect of life, and Greenhouse did a decent job of building up the way in which Christian Science’s no medical treatment doctrine played out in their childhood, with such cases as chicken pox and concussions, and crescendos with the enormity of its affect on her mother’s heartbreaking battle with cancer.

Throughout the memoir, Greehouse seems to be trying to work out for herself why her parents chose the religion they did, what about Christian Science attracted them, and how they could truly believe teachings that are so obviously contradicted in everyday life. Teachings such as there being no such thing as injury, illness, disease, or contagions and any symptoms of such being only illusions invented by the sinful mind and evidence of a failing faith on the part of the affected.

Greenhouse also uses fathermothergod as the eulogy her mother deserved, but had been denied under the teachings of Christian Science, which does not observe such natural life events as birth, marriage, and death.

I picked up Greenhouse’s book expecting a full view of what it is like to be a practicing Christian Scientist and the difficulty of pulling yourself out of that community, and was left feeling let down in that expectation. However, the story that is presented is a very moving and thought provoking one, if not as full-bodied as I would have liked to see.

Rating: 2.5/5

Alyssa is a wife and stay at home, homeschooling mother of five, with two boxers, two cats, a soft shelled turtle named after Bob the Builder, and 7 frogs (admittedly a homeschooling project gone froggy). In all her spare time, she loves to read and believes that there is no such thing as having too many books!

Review copy was provided free of any obligation by Crown Publishing. No monetary or any other form of compensation was received.

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